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Work with Dr. Robert Nay through private telehealth therapy focused on anger, emotional control, and conflict resolution. Dr. Nay helps adults, parents, children, couples, and families change reactive patterns before they damage relationships, parenting, work, or daily life.
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Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Free Telehealth Consultation
Licensed in 39 states
Private & Confidential
Specialized Telehealth Support for Anger, Emotional Reactions, Parenting Conflict, Child Behavior, and Relationship Communication
With Dr. Robert Nay, you get a more practical kind of therapy. This is not vague advice or open-ended talk alone. Dr. Nay’s work is focused on practical tools you can use in the moments that matter — during arguments, parenting struggles, emotional outbursts, and conversations that usually go wrong. This may be a good fit if:
- You react more strongly than you want to and regret it later
- Arguments, yelling, shutdowns, or resentment are becoming a pattern
- Your child is acting out, defiant, explosive, or frequently in conflict at home or school
- Parenting has become a cycle of frustration, consequences, guilt, and repeat behavior
- Stress, irritability, or anger is affecting your relationships or family life
- You want a clear path for changing patterns, not just talking about them
Licensed Psychologist • Telehealth in 39 States • Former Psychology / Psychiatry Professor • Author of Psychology and Self-Help Books • 30+ Published Articles and Invited Book Chapters • Featured in National Media
What We Address
When Emotional Reactions Start Affecting What Matters Most
Most people do not reach out for help because they want a diagnosis. They reach out because something in daily life is not working anymore.
Maybe small disagreements turn into big arguments. Maybe your child’s behavior has become harder to manage. Maybe you are tired of yelling, shutting down, walking on eggshells, or replaying conflicts after they happen. Maybe stress builds until it comes out in ways that hurt the people closest to you.
This page is for people who want help with the real-life patterns behind anger and conflict — not judgment, blame, or shame.
The goal is practical change: more control in difficult moments, fewer repeated arguments, calmer parenting, better communication, and a clearer path forward.
What Dr. Nay Helps Clients Work Toward
The light at the end of the tunnel is not “never feeling angry.” It is knowing what to do before anger takes over.
Clients often want help learning how to:
- Stay calmer when frustration builds
- Stop yelling, escalating, shutting down, or reacting automatically
- Handle conflict without making it worse
- Parent with more structure, confidence, and consistency
- Respond to a child’s acting out without getting pulled into power struggles
- Communicate clearly without blame, criticism, or defensiveness
- Protect important relationships from repeated emotional blowups
Recognizing patterns:
Anger, stress, and conflict are often signals that something needs attention. The work is not about pretending those feelings are not there. It is about learning how to recognize the pattern earlier, slow down the reaction, choose a better response, and repair the damage that repeated conflict can create.
What makes this approach different:
The focus is not “therapy for everything.” The focus is anger, emotional reactions, behavior, parenting conflict, and communication patterns that are disrupting daily life.
Primary Areas of Focus
One Focused theme.
Three Common Places It Shows Up.
Adults
Anger management support that is practical and structured.
Anger is not always loud. It can look like irritability, sarcasm, resentment, impatience, withdrawal, tension, or feeling like you go from calm to overwhelmed too quickly. For many adults, the concern is not anger itself — it is what happens when the reaction takes over.
This may sound familiar if:
- You snap, yell, criticize, or escalate faster than you mean to
- You feel regret after conflict but do not know how to stop the pattern
- Stress builds until it comes out as anger or irritability
- Your reactions are affecting your partner, children, work, or family life
- You feel misunderstood, disrespected, or constantly on edge
- You want concrete tools for staying in control during difficult moments
What the work focuses on:
Adult therapy with Dr. Nay focuses on recognizing triggers, understanding the thinking and stress patterns behind reactions, building emotional control skills, and practicing more effective responses in real-life situations.
The benefit:
More control, fewer regretted reactions, better communication, and a stronger ability to handle conflict without damaging the relationships that matter most.
Get practical support for anger, stress reactions, and emotional control.
Children and Parents
Help for acting out, emotional outbursts, and parent-child conflict.
When a child is struggling with anger, anxiety, frustration, or behavior problems, the whole household can start to revolve around conflict. Parents may feel like they are constantly correcting, reminding, arguing, threatening consequences, or trying to calm things down after another blowup.
This may be a good fit if your child:
- Has frequent emotional outbursts or meltdowns
- Acts out at home, school, or both
- Argues, refuses directions, or struggles with non-compliance
- Gets angry quickly or has trouble calming down
- Creates repeated power struggles around routines, school, screens, chores, or expectations
- Needs help learning better ways to manage frustration and emotions
Parent counseling may help with:
- Setting clearer limits without constant escalation
- Responding to defiance without getting pulled into arguments
- Building structure, consistency, and follow-through
- Understanding what may be driving the behavior
- Helping your child build better coping and problem-solving skills
What the work focuses on:
Dr. Nay works to help children build emotional control while helping parents develop practical strategies for behavior, communication, boundaries, and calmer follow-through at home.
The benefit:
A calmer home, fewer power struggles, more consistent parenting, and a child who has better tools for handling frustration, limits, and conflict.
Help your child and family move out of the conflict cycle.
Couples and Families
Conflict resolution for conversations that keep going wrong.
Some relationships get stuck in the same fight over and over. One person pushes, the other withdraws. One criticizes, the other gets defensive. A small issue becomes a larger argument. The real problem is no longer just the topic — it is the pattern.
This may be a good fit if:
- Arguments repeat without real resolution
- Conversations quickly become defensive, critical, angry, or tense
- One or both people shut down, withdraw, or avoid difficult topics
- Family stress is creating more conflict than connection
- Parenting disagreements are turning into relationship conflict
- You want better ways to communicate, listen, and solve problems
What the work focuses on:
Dr. Nay helps couples and families identify the conflict pattern, slow down reactive responses, communicate more clearly, and work toward practical problem-solving instead of repeated escalation.
The benefit:
Less arguing, more productive conversations, clearer expectations, and a better chance of resolving problems without the same emotional damage each time.
Start changing the conflict pattern.
Why Choose Dr. W. Robert Nay?
Many therapy pages sound the same: compassionate care, support for many issues, a safe place to talk. Those things matter, but they do not explain why someone should choose one psychologist over another.
A focused authority in anger, emotional control, and real-world behavior change.
Dr. Nay’s work has a clearer focus: anger management, emotional control, child behavior problems, parenting conflict, and communication patterns that affect families and relationships. His approach is practical, structured, and designed to help clients use what they learn outside the session — where change actually needs to happen.
Academic and professional authority.
Dr. Nay has held professorships in psychology and psychiatry at Virginia Commonwealth University, The University of Illinois, and Georgetown University Medical School.
Published expertise.
He has authored two graduate textbooks in clinical psychology and three popular self-help books on managing emotions and relationships. He has also published more than 30 articles on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, marriage, regulating anxiety, child behavioral issues, and parenting, along with invited book chapters on psychological intervention with adults, adolescents, children, and parents.
Media recognition.
Dr. Nay has been featured by national media outlets including CNN, Fox News, CBS, ET, AP, and Cosmopolitan.
The goal is not to label clients as “angry people.” The goal is to help people change the reactions and behaviors that are creating stress, conflict, and distance in their lives.
Dr. W. Robert Nay is a licensed psychologist, author, educator, and clinician who works with adults, parents, children, couples, and families through practical, cognitive-behavioral approaches to emotional and behavioral change.
Clients often choose Dr. Nay because they want:
- A psychologist with a focused background in anger and emotional control
- Practical CBT-based strategies that can be used outside the session
- Help with real-life conflict, not just general emotional support
- A clear connection between adult reactions, parenting, child behavior, and relationship patterns
- Private telehealth care available across 39 states
- A free consultation to determine fit before beginning
What Working Together Can Look Like
Practical tools for the moments where change matters most.
The work is not about blaming you, your child, your partner, or your family. It is about identifying the pattern and building better responses.
Depending on your situation, therapy may focus on helping you:
- Notice the early signs of escalation
- Understand the thoughts, stressors, and triggers behind reactions
- Pause before responding in ways you later regret
- Replace yelling, criticism, shutdowns, or power struggles with clearer communication
- Build consistent parenting responses to difficult behavior
- Teach children more effective ways to manage frustration
- Resolve conflict with less blame and more problem-solving
The practical goal is to help you leave sessions with tools you can apply in the real situations that brought you here.
Insurance & Fees
Clear information before you begin.
Dr. Nay does not bill insurance directly and is considered an out-of-network provider.
Many clients are still able to use out-of-network benefits through their insurance plan. Dr. Nay can provide documentation, often called a superbill or detailed statement, that you may submit to your insurance company for possible reimbursement.
Some clients also prefer not to involve insurance in therapy because they value added privacy around mental health care. That is a personal decision, and the goal is to make the process clear so you can choose what feels right for you.
Before starting, it is a good idea to call your insurance company and ask about your out-of-network mental health benefits, reimbursement rates, deductibles, and any forms they require.
Have questions about fees or next steps?
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to identify as having “anger issues” to reach out?
No. Many people do not think of themselves as having “anger issues.” They reach out because they are tired of overreacting, yelling, shutting down, arguing, feeling irritable, or watching the same conflict happen again and again. The focus is on changing patterns, not shaming labels.
Do you work with children and parents?
Yes. Dr. Nay works with children and parents on emotional regulation, acting out, non-compliance, school behavior concerns, parent-child conflict, and practical parenting strategies.
Is this only for anger management?
Anger management is a major focus, but the broader theme is emotional control and conflict resolution. That may include stress reactions, irritability, parenting conflict, child behavior problems, and repeated communication breakdowns in relationships.
Do you take insurance?
Dr. Nay does not bill insurance directly. Many clients use out-of-network benefits, and documentation can be provided for manual submission to your insurance company. You may want to call your insurer before starting to confirm your specific out-of-network benefits.
Is this confidential?
Yes. Therapy is handled with care for privacy and confidentiality. As with all mental health care, there are standard legal and safety exceptions, such as risk of harm or abuse reporting requirements. These can be discussed during the consultation or first session.
Why are there few or no reviews?
Many psychologists have limited public reviews because therapy is private, and clients may not want their mental health care publicly visible. A limited review profile is common in behavioral health and does not necessarily reflect the quality of care.
Which states do you serve?
Dr. Nay provides telehealth psychology services in 39 states. Clients can meet from home or another private location, as long as they are located in a state where Dr. Nay is licensed or authorized to provide care.
Do you work with couples and families?
Yes. Dr. Nay helps couples and families address communication problems, repeated arguments, defensiveness, anger, withdrawal, parenting conflict, and conflict resolution.
How does telehealth work?
Telehealth allows you to meet with Dr. Nay remotely by video or phone, depending on what is appropriate. You will need a private space, a reliable internet connection for video sessions, and a device such as a computer, tablet, or phone.
What happens in the free consultation?
The free consultation is a brief first conversation to understand what you are looking for, answer basic questions, discuss whether telehealth is appropriate, and decide whether Dr. Nay’s approach is a good fit. If it is, you can discuss next steps for scheduling.
How soon can I get started?
Availability can vary. The best next step is to request a free consultation so you can learn about current scheduling options and determine whether the fit is right.
How do I schedule a session?
You can schedule a consultation with Dr. Nay by clicking here or by calling:
(703) 893-3431
Get Help Before the Next Conflict Becomes the Same Old Pattern
If anger, frustration, acting out, or repeated conflict is affecting your home, parenting, relationship, or daily life, a focused approach can help. You do not need to wait until things feel unmanageable. The first step is a private consultation to talk through what is happening and whether Dr. Nay is the right fit.
Working with Dr. Nay may help you move toward:
More control during stressful or emotional moments
Fewer repeated arguments, blowups, and power struggles
Better communication and more practical problem-solving at home
Or call: (703) 893-3431
